“I can’t place enough emphasis on the role of intentional parenting and our presence and mentorship in our children’s life!” Dr Sylvia Forchap-Likambi
As parents, our role in our children’s lives goes far beyond providing for their basic or luxurious needs. We have the opportunity and the responsibility to be intentional in our approach to parenting, to actively participate in their upbringing, and to serve as their most influential mentors and role models. The impact of intentional parenting and our presence in our children’s lives cannot be overstated, and here are three key benefits that come from this approach.
First and foremost, intentional parenting fosters stronger family bonds. When we make a conscious effort to engage with our children, to listen to their thoughts, ideas, and concerns, and to participate in their activities, we create a foundation of trust and understanding. This bond becomes the bedrock of a healthy parent-child relationship, enabling open communication and a sense of security within the family unit. By being present in our children’s lives, we create opportunities for meaningful connections and lasting memories that will shape their outlook on life and their relationships with others.
Moreover, intentional parenting allows us to instil positive values and behaviours in our children. Children are like sponges, absorbing the world around them and learning from the examples we set. By consciously modelling love, self-control, discipline, kindness, empathy, and integrity, we can impart these essential values to our children. Our actions speak louder than words, and when we demonstrate respect, compassion, and responsibility in our interactions with others, we provide our children with a powerful blueprint for their own moral development. Through intentional parenting, we have the privilege of nurturing qualities that will guide our children in becoming empathetic, principled, and conscientious individuals.
Finally, by being intentional in our parenting, we lay the groundwork for our children’s future success. Our presence and mentorship serve as a source of guidance and support as our children navigate the complexities of the world around them. When we actively engage with them, we can identify their strengths, passions, understand their challenges, and offer the encouragement and resources they need to thrive. Through intentional parenting, we can help cultivate their self-esteem, resilience, and determination, equipping them with the tools to overcome obstacles and achieve their aspirations. By being attentive and involved in their lives, we set the stage for our children to grow into confident, capable, and motivated individuals who are ready to embrace the opportunities and challenges that lie ahead.
The role of intentional parenting and our presence as mentors in our children’s lives cannot be overstated. The benefits of this approach extend beyond the immediate impact on our families; they shape the character, values, and future of our children. By prioritising intentional parenting, we create an environment of love, trust, and growth that empowers our children to lead fulfilling and meaningful lives. Let’s make a commitment to be present, engaged, and intentional in our parenting journey, knowing that our influence will resonate in our children’s lives for years to come.
I have experienced and continue to experience these benefits first-hand in my children’s lives and family 
If you need any support or guidance, don’t hesitate to reach out. But you must be willing and ready to invest in this!
